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Clinical psychologist, writer. Editor of On the Couch: Practical psychology for everyday life. karen@onthecouch.co.nz

What are yours? And do they define your life?

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Forget the passion hunt — this is better.

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How do you rank?

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Relationships shouldn’t make you anxious.

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What (or who) do you wish you could change?

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How do you cope with the tough times?

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The new psychology term for stagnating.

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It’s (definitely) not you — it’s them.

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They are not always toxic.

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Emotional Unavailable People are Not Always Toxic

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